Your relationship recently ended and you think you’re ready to date again. I’ve got one question: where’s the fucking fire?! More often than not, the best thing you can do after a breakup is stay single. Sometimes spending time alone can remind you what makes you happy on a personal level. It also prevents you from unfairly comparing a new love interest to an ex. Trying to fill a void too quickly can be extremely hazardous for your love life. A lot of people could benefit from embracing the “mourning phase.” So go buy a pack of tissues, watch some shitty rom coms and feel sorry for yourself – you’ve earned it!